Why should i bother dating
The possibility of rejection only increases if the girl you’re asking has no idea that you’re interested in her.
Plus, you always want to find the perfect moment to ask her on a date, but those can be hard to come by if there’s no opportunity for one-on-one time.
I mean, asking somebody on a date is serious business.
You’re making your intentions extremely clear, and that can put you in a really vulnerable position.
Because while a psychologist can keep on asking questions: “How does that make you feel? We’ve been talking for 11 weeks now, and I am astounded at how far she’s come. But since she does have high standards, only 10% of men will be eligible. It just means that due to her smaller dating pool, it will take her more time than it takes other women.
It’s no different than being a shrink perhaps, but one of my clients, who IS a shrink, thinks I’ve got the tougher job. Working with her has been a pure joy for me, as I am witness to her spectacular growth on a week-by-week basis. If she didn’t have such high standards, she might be satisfied by the cute, boring guys she just passed up.
Her problem was that her expectations are unrealistic. Last week she had 7 guys in her inbox and was high as a kite. Unless you’ve gone out with 19 guys, you haven’t even gotten warmed up yet! Then maybe you should stop freaking out that it didn’t happen after six months in 2009. He may have just signed onto e Harmony for the first time. Ultimately, she wants a husband and family, but that’s a process that she just started undertaking 11 weeks ago.
As long as you’re working at it and doing all that you can, good things will come your way.
I recently read the article posted last month entitled, “Why We Need To Start Dating Again”.
And on that second date, about half would be third date-worthy. And even then, it takes a bit longer than that to determine if someone is relationship-worthy. When I went on my 55th date, I got a lot of ‘the one’ vibes from our first date.
Our second date I got even more ‘the one’ vibes (and a really good kiss at the end of that date).