Speed dating checklist
But imagine, if you would, the horror of asking some of the more, um, personal questions, to a man you had just met, and were um, romantically interested in:– When did you last cry in front of another person? – If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? – Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.
Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. I found him funny and, um, different to the guys I usually dated, we laughed quite a lot, and then I left thinking, ‘Hmmmm? I did not instantly foresee years of adventures and laughter and two little red-headed people without whom we could no longer live. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Who you are right now, the things that you think define you, like your favourite dinner guest and your most-treasured possession, are transient, are not for-ever things. If the guys see a group of five of you, they’re going to know they need to pick one of you and get intimidated! They were lined up four in a row on one side of the room and I was on the other side of the room. A little bit awkward, but no worse than I was expecting.Anyone who would come to “date” me would have just come from my four friends. All the men were nice and friendly, and seemed open to the whole concept. A piece of advice to future speed daters: Don’t tell the guys you’re there with your friends. So the first one who came up and said, “I’ve heard all about you already.