Racial discrimination online dating
"It really hurt my self-esteem."Jason is earning his doctorate with a goal of helping people with mental health needs.
NPR is not using his last name to protect his privacy and that of the clients he works with in his internship.
Queer men of color have fewer options in online dating than queer white men.
Data suggests these stories are not uncommon or unique.
But in online dating profiles he uses a common English first name and an Italian surname.
But I started to think, I have a choice: Would I rather be alone, or should I, like, face racism?"Jason says he faced it and thought about it quite a bit.So he wasn't surprised when he read a blog post from Ok Cupid co-founder Christian Rudder in 2014 about race and attraction.For instance, one white man asked him, “Do you wanna make a white man your slave?” Another white man refused to believe he was Black, citing his “Chinese-looking eyes.” These are just a few stories that illustrate the effects of racism within online dating communities comprising mostly gay men.