Is being intimidating good or bad
I really doubt anyone who knows me well would say I was a bitch or give anyone a reason to be afraid of me.I feel that I am always having to make the first move with guys and I would like to feel as though I am being pursued, instead of the other way around for once.My advice: Keep smiling and being friendly, keep dressing well, don’t give up your ambition, and give your boyfriend a backhand upside the head for making as preposterous a statement as “because cute girls are scary.” Just…you know, slap him playfully and smile when you do it. JOE: I think that your situation is a good one to be in – as you said, those traits that could come across as intimidating are all positive ones. Instead, just realize that, if you want men to pursue you, you’ll need to wait for a bolder, more confident man to appear in your life, but you’ll need to realize that such a man will also likely be able to easily get his choice of women who are less ambitious/organized/etc. Such a man might be tempted to go for the easy score, especially at the college level. you could accept that such confidence for men often comes a bit later in life, along with more maturity, and that, for now, you might need to be the one who does the asking. Don’t do so much to gain the first that you sacrifice the second.Go out and grab your date by the balls and make him want you.
There are lots of reasons why dating doesn’t happen with the ease and results we want.
However, maybe you ‘trying’ to smile isn’t always as apparent.
I’m a pretty smiley guy and the moment I walk around with a ‘straight’ face people immediately respond with “what’s wrong??!
” I was flattered he liked me for so long but sad that he felt he couldn’t approach me.
I told my best female friend about this and asked if she thought I was intimidating.