Examples of good online dating emails
I change it from brunch to coffee because coffee is easier to do than brunch for most people (and I can’t help but wonder if every guy would ask her out to brunch because it’s in her profile).
I’ve added what could be considered a weird email title because I’ve found odd email titles encourage opening the email. Here’s his final email example: Hang Gliding Hi, how do you do?
If you see an 10 emails in your inbox with the title “Hi” and one with the title “Courage! You have a great outlook on life, and it seems like a good head on your shoulders.
I think it’s really important to make everyday fun.
He was disappointed with the number of responses he was receiving (although I think it’s important to keep in mind there are many reasons you may not get responses, not just how you write your email) As I talk about in my guide, I don’t believe anyone has the dating/realtionships thing fully figured out.
Some of us have more experience or better insight than others but at the end of the day we’re all just making our best guesses.
I cover my approach writing first emails with online dating in my post First Contact Email Examples.
In that article I also give some examples of how I would write some first emails based on several random dating profiles.
I get why he asks but some people are more sensitive about risks with online dating than others so I’d save it for a later email. I love staying busy, and I can usually have fun doing just about anything. Would you like to chat sometime…or since you like brunch so much, maybe meet in the city at somepoint?
Once she responds, I then move into specifics like favorite this or that.
I wouldn’t describe myself in first emails to the women.
In this article, I will review some more first dating emails based on advice I gave to a reader.
He provided me with three emails he wrote and I reworked them to be closer to what I would have written.