Dating someone who has bipolar dating in different countries

I had a child and I wasn’t about to subject her to something I knew little about.He wrote me back an e-mail which made me feel horribly guilty.It was painful, and out of control and there was nothing I could do about it. When he knew I wanted sex, he always made an effort, even if he was tired or sleepy.--except when we were ending. He took showers with me a lot, but did prefer his privacy at times...In the end, I said I wanted out and he threw me and my daughter out of the streets with no where to go. =( I really exhausted him physically now that I think about it. But if I asked him to shower with me, he never turned me down. Towards the end he became suicidal, talking about hating his life and wanting to die.I am hoping by posting this I will help someone else before they subject themselves to the pain that many of us have or are still enduring by loving someone with the terrible illness.Here is my story: I met my ex-fiancée on a dating web site.Ironically he refused talk therapy as a way to deal with his illness 33.) constantly was negative and often wrote me e-mails in which he would put me, my family or daughter down.34.) often brought up how much he hated his ex girlfriends 35.) constantly berated me for not doing things I said I would do and how I never thought about him 36.) often complained he “gave more” to others and expected nothing in return, when in reality he made note of it 37.) constantly complained we only did things I enjoyed, and I never thought about him 38.) he spent the night at a crisis center when I first broke it off with him, only 3 months into dating 39.) cried and begged me back 40.) was addicted to on line dating and would post on multiple dating sites even while engaged 41.) expected me to appear at certain events even after he broke up with me and became enraged when I didn’t.

Again lack of intimacy 53.) always talked sexual, wrote sexual things, but in reality was turned off by sex.

42.) could not make an important decision in his life without his parent’s involvement. 44.) told me I should be grateful for all he’s done.

45.) constantly would send me “statistics” of why our relationship wouldn’t work 46.) during fights he would not answer his phone, turn off the lights at his home and pretend he wasn’t there refusing to speak 47.) kept secrets from his parents 48.) said I didn’t make him feel sexually attractive, but nameless faceless women did in general said very hurtful spiteful things to me 49.) would chat on line while we were engaged with other women 50.) we would rarely have sex. Where most engaged couples are so in love they have sex 3-4 times a week if not more.

He said it was funner having women want him sexually but not giving into them.

54.) told me he would commit suicide if either one or both of his parents died 55.) told me constantly he didn’t think anyone could be as supportive and loving as his parents had been in his life 56.) said I would end up leaving like all the rest this went on for 10 long months.

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