Boyfriend is addicted to online dating sites
He lives an hour away from me and I'm always going to his house because he says my house is too much of a mess.
I discovered by accident he had been using a dating site, and in the last two months had been winking and flirting with women on it. And he has made me feel like I’m such an awful person. (That’s why “accident” is in quotes.) But the problem here, is once you procure information in a covert fashion it’s very difficult to do much with it.
After a month of mourning and attempted make-up sex, he reposts his profile once again. Naturally, I’ve long been an advocate for online dating, not because it’s perfect, but because it ALWAYS created a love life for me.
All YOU can see is that the same face is still on there, two years later, when, in fact, this guy is the perfect example of an online dating success. As a writer without a close-knit group of friends, who worked from home, and who bristled at the idea of picking up women at bars, this medium was a godsend.
He called me the next morning to berrate me some more and criticize me telling me he was talking to himself since I wasn't responding. And I bought him all these gifts I now have to return. On top of it he owes me 00 that he kept from an insurance claim he got back after I got my purse stolen. Because he was my boyfriend and he did the exact same bs except he never took my purse. Forget him now and change your contact information a.s.a.p.
When I began telling him how I felt, how I've given everthing that I could to him and to our relationship, he cut me off and said: "I don't want to get into that discussion with you". Find a real man who would cherish you and forget this tool, after you call the police and get your money back. He had 2-5 profiles on many different sites and he'd claim they were old and lost the pw. I suffered for so long and his own friends at his uni were sending me links to his profiles and more. A few even contacted me and some launched attacks on him to get revenge.